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It is high time for us to transform our dysfunctional ways of relating to one another, specifically the way we interact with the opposite sex. We cannot have awakened women without their male counterparts. Men cannot feel satisfied without the nurturing care of femininity. We need the Whole to be healed. That’s where we move from me to We, and that is where we enter Unity consciousness. There seems to be so much underlying fear around the feminine coming back to power. A fear that she will override or dominate the masculine, that she will cause war in order to gain victory. This is not the goal. The goal is mutual understanding. Temperance. Equality. Here is how I see things… Man, in order to be respected by woman, you must learn to cherish her. Woman, in order to feel cherished by man, you must find a way to respect him. Reciprocity is key, and it will take some adjustment, but ultimately this will set you free. Love your sisters. Honor your brothers. The fear m...

I would only lose or add weight if it affected my health or sex life, which it doesn't and I'm not going to sacrifice my mental health to have the perfect body. Sometimes, I tend to wonder if this is about self-esteem or this is one of the addiction that has been inflicted upon us by our society and media, or if this is just nature via nurture or nurture via nature. This, I believe, is what all women (and men) are searching for; We think that we want to be thinner, fatter, with smaller or bigger boobs (or tall, muscular with abs) — the list goes on — and we waste so much time and money in pursuit of these things when actually all we are looking for is the feeling of being happy with ourselves and our bodies. Why are we not taught to love our own uniqueness? Probably because if we loved ourselves no matter what our faces and bodies looked like, then billions of pounds worth of industries would go bust! Imagine if we all love our body like Gabourey Sidibe loves hers, ...

Yes!!! Its story time and i got one beautiful piece here. Its all about overcoming your fears, its all about finding your purpose and reason to overcome your fear. Once there was a girl who was afraid of everything. She lived on a tropical island of fearsome forests surrounded by cavernous seas. All the other islanders lived for adventure, it seemed, but not her. She watched the towering ocean waves rolling toward her, and gasped at the audacity of the swimmers who danced in the roar of the surf, bodies like slippery eels. Hugging her knees at a safe distance on the beach, the girl said to herself, “I could never do that.” As the children of the island dove, jumped, and spun into a thundering waterfall, the girl dipped her toes in the pool below and shivered with fright. “I could never do that,” she thought again. She hovered at the edge of the forest that bordered the village and peered through the trees. The hunters chased great beasts on foot, leaping tree...

I sit, wandering around the trails of my own mind. What am I searching for? Where can I find it? Lost, perhaps, but maybe not lost at all. Sometimes it helps to be a rudderless ship on the open sea, just allowing the wind to take you where you need to go. Sometimes it helps just to breathe when the stress of resistance becomes too great to bear. The Art of Doing Nothing is not doing nothing at all. It is the active work of the enlightened, and it takes serious practice. It takes active participation in surrender. It takes fucking balls. I’ve found that I was once way too afraid to practice the Art of Doing Nothing. I believed I had to act out, to be actively engaged in creating the life I thought I wanted. The problem is that I never really knew what I wanted. I just thought I knew. Where once I sought security through strength and violence I now find them in peace and love. Where once I sought happiness in wealth and materialism, I now find them in myself and in simplicit...